The fear of being judged is one of the biggest reasons why most people are afraid of speaking their mind. They are unable to tell their partners what they really feel, don’t contribute in class or at work
Most people have the fear of being judged because they want to be likable, because they want to fit in other people’s circle, because they don’t want to be seen as a failure. I feel the same way all the time. But I always remind myself that no one is perfect. Those that put a show of always being perfect just like me have flaws. Don’t expect them to paint out the challenges they have at work, the fights they have in their relationships, the meals they have have behind the scenes or the problems they face in their perfect and expensive trips. They’ll always give out what they want the world to see.
Humans will always judge. At times good, and at times bad. And however how much you try to fit in. Judgement is an ongoing process and it’ll catch up with you at some point. So instead of working hard to shape up to what others expect of you, use it to know your strength and limitations. If you know what you are good at, what people say won’t matter. It is a high time you stopped giving a damn.Fear of being judged portrays a bigger part of our own insecurities. When we fear being judged, we are literally judging ourselves. I bet most of us have had fights between their insecure self and their logical self.
You will always have your insecure self questioning your capabilities and comparing yourself to others. But, at never at any time give it the power to overpower your logic self. The trick to conquering it is not letting critics define your capabilities and be a reason for you not sharing your purpose. In the end you’ll realise that I tried is better than I wish!!
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